Nurturing Growth Through Acknowledgment and Understanding: A Learning Specialist's Perspective

Alison Van Keuren, our learning specialist at Bridgeview Montessori School, is always thinking and growing in ways that help our community the children, the faculty, and our families. She holds an undergraduate degree in Psychology from Northeastern University and a Master’s degree in Occupational Therapy from Tufts University. Alison was originally drawn to Montessori for kinesthetic, child-led learning in a nurturing environment. She believes that student support is meant to be integrated in the classroom with close family engagement . Below she provides us with some inspiration. ~ Suzanne Lawson

As Bridgeview Montessori’s learning specialist, I foster deep connections with our students and teachers through careful observation and engagement. My role centers on identifying both strengths and challenges in each child's learning journey. Meaningful change emerges when we acknowledge what works and what does not in a child's learning experience. Through relationship building and detailed observation, we create a foundation for developing effective strategies. This enables children to enhance their communication and executive function skills, ultimately helping them access learning, share knowledge, and express their unique personalities.

The Foundation of Connection

Acknowledgment is fundamental to human development. When we acknowledge both positive and challenging emotions, we communicate that each person is heard, valued, and understood. This recognition creates the foundation for all learning and social-emotional growth.

Beginning with Ourselves

The transformation in our children starts with our own inner work. Growth requires acknowledging our own:

  • Uncertainty in decisions in parenting or as educators

  • Mistakes and missteps

  • Moments of overwhelm

  • Disconnection with partners or other key figures

  • Need for support and understanding

The Dance of Support

In Montessori education, we follow the child's lead, becoming detectives of their unique journey. This requires careful observation to understand:

  • What they can handle

  • When they need support

  • How to offer meaningful opportunities

We dance alongside our children as they develop independence, supporting without rescuing, present but not controlling. This delicate balance allows children to discover their own capabilities while feeling securely supported.

Embracing Neurodiversity

Each person—child, teacher, or parent—travels their own unique path. We're not striving to reach arbitrary societal norms or competing to catch up with peers. Instead, we recognize that:

  • Different thinking patterns are valuable

  • Individual journeys intertwine but remain distinct

  • Success looks different for everyone

Deep Listening is Connection

Behavior is communication. Through deep listening—both verbal and non-verbal—we create meaningful connections. This means:

  • Acknowledging effort

  • Validating disappointment

  • Being present without fixing

  • Recognizing resilience

A Valentine's Message of Love

As we celebrate love this Valentine's season, remember that the ultimate expression of love is acknowledgment. Be:

  • A detective of your child's needs

  • A listener to their struggles

  • A witness to their journey

  • A supporter of their strength

Your child is capable and resilient. Together, we can provide the tools they need to build on their natural strengths—all while being guided by love.

When children witness the adults in their lives practicing acknowledgment and growth, they internalize these powerful lessons. Remember:

  • You are invaluable

  • Your efforts matter

  • Your journey inspires

  • Your love transforms

 A Message to Our Community

We see you. We hear you. To all caregivers, teachers, and role models - go bravely into the world knowing your impact matters. Each day you:

  • Model your inner work

  • Nurture your hopes and dreams

  • Shape future generations

  • Operate with your best knowledge

  • Carry immeasurable love